testimonies from the widows

 

Name: Gigi

The genocide in our area began immediately after Habyarimana's death. We left home for Rubungo and there we found many other Tutsis who had run for their lives. We were a mixture of Hutus and Tutsis because noone knew what was going on. On the 7th April 1994, we were attacked by a group of presidential guards and militia who told all the Hutus to leave. We escaped to the Pentecostal church in Kimironko but there every body was asked to hand over all the money they had on them. All the men were taken and that was the last time I saw my father. We ran away but were stopped on our way by the militia who had started raping ladies.

We went back to our home. Our mother put us in our bedroom so that if we were to be raped, it would be in the house and not in every body's presence but we were thrown outside. While they concentrated on my mother I ran to the sorghum plantation from where I watched all the proceedings. My mother was told to dig her own grave and stand in it to check if it was deep enough but when she descended into the hole, she was hit on the head with a hammer and covered with soil. My grand mother and aunt were left in the bodies so that they would die a slow death.

I stayed in the plantations with my sisters and brothers and I gave them rain water to drink while the older ones fed on raw potatoes that we got from people's gardens. We went to one of the neighbour's homes and found the ladies who had become the militia's wives. They allowed me to hide there but not my young sisters who had to return home. I was told to choose a man if I wanted to stay in that home but one of the children had mercy on me and took me away and hid me. My sisters returned because our house keeper had told them that they had to take me to him to be his wife if they wanted to stay safely in our home.

We headed towards Gitarama in the night and I told whoever stopped me that I was a soldier's wife. My mother's old friend took us in but before long we were hunted by the militia who took my young sisters. I ran off with the youngest. One of my sisters was told to come looking for me if she was to be pardoned. The two of us with our youngest sister decided to come to Kigali since as there was trouble everywhere. It was hard passing by the roadblocks but I maintained my lie that I was a soldier's wife and we got to the Sainte-Famille Church. By the time the Hutus learnt of our presence, RPF soldiers had started rescuing people and taking them to Byumba.

After the war, we found the rest of the children who had survived and returned to our home in Kimironko. I left school and am looking after all the children because they are young. The two who would be old enough to help me care for the very young ones are handicapped and can not do much. I work as a casual labourer in homes and gardens and that is how we survive.

 
     
     

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